Understanding Delayed Ejaculation and Anorgasmia in Men
Many men experience difficulty reaching orgasm or ejaculating, yet few openly talk about it. Delayed ejaculation (DE) and anorgasmia can cause frustration, confusion, and strain on intimate relationships. While often misunderstood, these issues are more common than most realize — and can result from a complex mix of physical, psychological, and relational factors. The good news is that help is available, and treatment is often effective once the underlying causes are identified.
Below you’ll find a carefully curated set of articles, clinical reviews, videos, and podcasts designed to help men and their partners better understand DE and anorgasmia. These resources range from in-depth scientific studies to accessible explanations and first-hand expert discussions.
📄 Articles & Reviews
These research papers and medical articles provide an evidence-based overview of delayed ejaculation and anorgasmia. They cover diagnosis, treatment, psychological and physiological factors, and current best practices in men’s sexual health.
- Delayed Ejaculation: Pathophysiology, Diagnosis, and Treatment – Comprehensive review of causes, mechanisms, diagnosis, and treatment.
- Male Delayed Orgasm and Anorgasmia: A Practical Guide for Sexual Medicine – Clinical guide for clinicians and patients.
- Delayed Orgasm and Anorgasmia – Defines DO/AO, etiologies, and management strategies.
- Psychosexual Therapy for Delayed Ejaculation Based on the Sexual Tipping Point Model – Integrative psychosexual approach to DE/AO.
- The Drug Treatment of Delayed Ejaculation – Survey of pharmacological approaches and evidence limitations.
- Treatments for Delayed Ejaculation: A Narrative Review – Summary of treatment modalities for delayed ejaculation.
- Disorders of Ejaculation: An AUA / SMSNA Guideline – Official professional guidelines for diagnosing and managing ejaculatory disorders.
- Delayed Ejaculation: Background, Etiology, Pathophysiology – Clinical overview and mechanisms.
- Delayed Ejaculation: Causes, Treatment, and Outlook – Patient-friendly explanation of causes and treatments.
- Ejaculation Problems: Too Fast, Too Slow or Not at All? – Educational overview from a major medical center.
- Ejaculation Problems (NHS UK) – Information on causes and context for delayed ejaculation.
- Epidemiology of Delayed Ejaculation – Review of prevalence and population data related to DE.
- Diagnoses and Medications Associated with Delayed Ejaculation – Examines drug and condition correlations.
- Delayed Ejaculation (Wikipedia) – General overview and additional reference links.
- Delayed or Absent Orgasm (Urology Specialists Austin) – Clinical and patient-friendly discussion of DO/AO.
▶️ Videos
Video resources can be helpful for visual learners who prefer to see experts explain symptoms and solutions. These presentations offer clinical insights, educational breakdowns, and practical advice from sexual medicine specialists.
- Male Anorgasmia: From “No” to “Go!” – Alexander Pastuszak, MD, PhD – Explains anatomy, causes, and treatment approaches.
- What is Delayed Orgasm/Ejaculation? | Justin Houman MD – Overview explanation from a urologist.
- Better Sex: Delayed or Absent Orgasm – Discussion of delayed and absent orgasm in men.
- What to Do If You Can’t Finish?! | Delayed Ejaculation – Practical strategies for addressing DE.
- MTP 73: Anorgasmia – Dr. Paul Perito – Expert discussion on sexual function and orgasmic disorders.
- A is for Anorgasmia and How to Have Awesome Sexual Pleasure! – Educational talk on pleasure, anatomy, and sexual awareness.
- The Hard Truth About Premature & Delayed Ejaculation – Panel discussion comparing premature and delayed ejaculation.
🎙️ Podcasts
Podcasts offer in-depth, conversational insight from medical experts, therapists, and educators. These episodes explore how delayed orgasm affects men’s relationships, mental health, and self-esteem — and what can be done to improve sexual function.
- Sexology Podcast — EP407: Delayed Orgasms: Reaching Sexual Satisfaction – Dr. Justin Houman discusses causes and management of DE.
- Better Sex: Delayed or Absent Orgasm (BetterMan Clinics) – Audio conversation about diagnosis, treatment, and hope for Recovery.
💡 Final Thoughts
Struggling with delayed ejaculation or anorgasmia can feel isolating, but you are far from alone. These conditions are highly treatable once their root causes are identified — whether hormonal, neurological, psychological, or relational. If you’re affected, consider discussing these issues openly with a qualified urologist or sex therapist who has experience with male orgasmic disorders.
Awareness and education are the first steps toward Recovery. By exploring the resources above, you’re already taking action toward understanding your body, improving communication with your partner, and finding solutions that restore Sexual Confidence and satisfaction.
Disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional before starting any treatment or therapy.